Anal
Forget the outdated myths - anal play isn’t just for one group of people. The anus is packed with nerve endings and can be a source of intense pleasure when explored properly. Whether you're new to backdoor fun or a seasoned adventurer, the key is to take it slow, use plenty of lube, and enjoy the ride.
Questions & Answers
Why does anal play feel good?
The anus and surrounding area are loaded with sensitive nerve endings, making it a pleasure center in its own right. For those with prostates, stimulation can lead to deep, full-body orgasms. For those without, the nerve endings around the anus and internal walls can still deliver intense pleasure.
What’s the difference between a butt plug and an anal dildo?
Butt plugs are designed for comfortable wear and long-term stimulation, typically with a flared base to keep them secure. Anal dildos, on the other hand, are made for thrusting and penetration. If you’re new, start with a plug - it’s a great way to ease into the experience before moving on to more movement-focused toys.
Who has a P-spot?
The P-spot (prostate) is an internal gland found in people with penises, located just a couple of inches inside the anus. When stimulated correctly, it can create deep, toe-curling pleasure and even hands-free orgasms. But even if you don’t have a prostate, the anal walls still contain highly sensitive nerve endings that make penetration pleasurable.
Do I really need lube for anal play?
Yes. Absolutely. No exceptions. Unlike the vagina, the anus doesn’t self-lubricate, so using a thick, long-lasting lube is essential. It reduces friction, increases comfort, and makes everything s o much smoother -literally and figuratively.
How do I prepare for anal play?
Start by relaxing and using plenty of lube - it's the key for comfort. Many find that a warm shower or anal cleansing bulb, helps them feel more confident and clean before play. Start slow with your fingers to gently explore, and pay attention to stimulating everywhere to help your body relax and become more receptive. Take your time and listen to your body - don’t rush the process, as the journey is just as important as the destination.